Won’t Be Needing This Any Longer…

Having lots of fun this past week sorting through our belongings, throwing away all the unnecessary detritus, in preparation for the packout of our household effects tomorrow and Wednesday.  I realized that there will be no more journeys on which this luggage tag pictured here will have any use, aside from directing our items on a long odyssey to a place where will not be.  It’s only starting to begin to dawn on me that we are really leaving.

Three years!  Over half of Anya’s lifetime!  As long as we’d lived in DC before we left to go overseas in the beginning!  It’s hard to believe, and I am really sad to be leaving Tajikistan.  Happy, at the same time, to be getting back to the US, but sad for the leaving.

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Did You Doubt It?

Size apparently does matter after all.

Tajikistan recently gained the tallest flagpole in the world, and the flag adorning it is also supposedly the largest in its class.  (The record pole will only stand out until the company that put it up, Trident Support, which specializes in this particular small niche — building record-setting “Monumental flagpoles” for banana republics that crave this kind of thing — builds the next one.)  The massive pole was erected just in time to help Tajikistan celebrate 20 years of sovereignty.

And don’t worry: even after Tajikistan’s huge pole fades from memory, the country will take comfort in building the largest mosque in the former Soviet Union, reportedly one of the largest outside Saudi Arabia (a somewhat more noteworthy claim, the latter).

Alas, presumably kids still won’t be permitted to attend the dangerous services held inside.

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Don’t Mean To Bug Ya…

Hope you weren’t holding your breath to learn whether Owen and I made it back to Dushanbe safely. Answer: yes. And the solo trip with baby was actually not as bad as I had feared. Not that I want to do it again any time soon if I can help it, but still.

Our (or at least my) adjustment to the 9 hour time difference was actually not all that painful either. I think once you are surviving on about 5 hours’ sleep maximum on any given night, and even those afforded to you at the most random times, not necessarily all in a row, maybe the time zone thing doesn’t really matter that much.

I’d been gone about 3 months in all, and one of the most remarkable things that had developed in my absence: bugs. There seemed to be a small band of mosquitoes hiding out in the guest bedroom where we now have Owen’s crib set up. Luckily they only seemed to be bothering me, and they seem to have died out quickly, although it did give me pause for a short while.

A problem that we’d had before in the kitchen — moths flying out of cupboards whenever they were opened — had gotten a lot worse. So I spent one morning shortly after I arrived cleaning out the grains that were harboring worms and the ziploc bags whose folds seem to serve as excellent sites for moths to set up a little cobwebby home.

I hesitate to report, but Anya had no trouble mentioning repeatedly that one day recently Surayo had had to remove a worm from a cookie on her plate.  Wait, that sounds even worse than what I mean: she had to throw out the whole thing, of course, not just remove the worm.  In any case, I know, yuck. But I guess a hazard of living in Tajikistan? (And being not the best housekeeper in the world. I guess maybe the cookies and other bug infested things were older than I thought.)

Yes, gross, but not as bad as the next, somehow.

Mosquitoes weren’t the only extra friends in the study/nursery. We spent one recent Sunday shaking out, carefully vacuuming, spreading out in the still-warm Dushanbe daytime sun a small collection of rugs we had bought over the last 12 months or so.  Since we didn’t have enough floor space (because so much of it is already occupied by State-Department-issue rugs), we’d ended up folding and piling them in one corner of the room.

We immediately chucked the worst of the bunch — a small circular rug purchased by Dan in Murghab. Which mysteriously was meant to be made of yak fur, billed as resistant to bugs. Guess not.

Luckily one of the rugs (the one I like best) was actually made of cotton, so the moths/worms hadn’t bothered with it. (We still vacuumed carefully, don’t worry.) And the other one that was wool was either purchased recently enough or placed far enough away, or something, that it wasn’t too badly affected. But the circular yak-fur rug was a hairy Swiss cheese of worms and moths and vacant cocoons. Kind of made my skin crawl.

(Anyone who has spent a night or more in our guest room in the past few months — I think that is only LH and me and Owen — please forgive us! At least you weren’t sleeping atop or really anywhere near those rugs….?)

Imagine my disappointment yesterday upon examining a little woolen Pamiri camel toy that I was given for Owen, for which luckily he is still just too young. Yup: cocoons and the telltale brown, sand-like eggs of these critters. Yuck. Apparently one should be very careful with any woolen items he or she buys in Gorno-Badakhshan. While also avoiding bedbugs.

Last, but not the least painful of the recent Dushanbe bug encounters, was the case of giardiasis I quickly acquired after re-entry. Ugh. Let me give you a piece of advice: try at all costs to avoid serious food poisoning while nursing a baby. I actually already knew this to be the right course of action, after having suffered a bad bout of it in Vladivostok while still nursing Anya.  Apparently severe loss of fluids led to me passed out on the floor of the bathroom in the middle of the night and a big mess for Dan to clean up.

Alas, even my heightened awareness of this danger on return to Tajikistan — where food poisoning is basically unavoidable — did not help me escape.  (I thought maybe I’d been here long enough to be used to the local flora, but I think the 3 months in the US did me in.)

This time around, I started on the ORS soon after I got sick, managed it with the BRAT diet, and have actually still not taken the meds to treat it — my symptoms are gone, and I just don’t want to interrupt nursing for three whole days as recommended to take the medicine.  Guess I’ll consult with a doctor once I’m back in the States and reevaluate whether I should go through with the medication.

What a great birthday greeting that made from the local Iranian hospital lab, though: “Good morning, Khonum Walker, and Happy 40th! It’s official — you’ve got giardia!”

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All Wet

No trips to the bozorcha in DC, but plenty to keep us busy.

Anya has spent much of the time so far in the pool (or on one of several playgrounds).

Another interesting novelty has been the lending library in all of its facets.  Primarily the ability to have a different selection of books at home, but also the opportunity to pull one of many books right off the shelf, test it out, and either keep it for check-out or put it in the re-shelve pile.  Proximity of any given lending library to a playground also has a role in determining how exciting this new activity can be.

Some additional tidbits about the activity of the last 2+ weeks

Most read book: “Maisy Goes to the Library” (close 2nd place: “Way Up High in a Tall Green Tree“)

Favorite indoor game: Costumes/dress-up

Favorite outdoor game: Swimming Lessons (i.e. Anya “teaches” Lisa how to swim)

Favorite playground: Turtle Park in Tenleytown (close 2nd place: Glen Echo Park playground)

Number of consecutive days on which Russian has been spoken at length: 4

Top activity that seems to draw out the desire to hold a conversation in Russian: Coloring

Percent of body submerged in water while blowing bubbles and not wearing any flotation device: 100 (upright self-dunking beyond the top of the head while holding on to the shallow-end handrail, July 2)

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Even More West

Anya and I are actually no longer in Tajikistan — we’ve been in Washington DC (technically just outside its northwest border) for almost 2 weeks.

The weeks before our departure flew by, between finishing up work at my office, saying goodbye to people I will not see again when I return, and preparing things for our departure.

But one of the things I’d wanted to write about during those last weeks was yet another of the simple pleasures of life in Dushanbe: the habit I developed of buying the day’s supply of fresh summer fruit and perhaps a few veggies at the “bozorcha” (small bazaar) situated on Tursunzoda Avenue (the quieter, easternmost north-south thoroughfare in central Dushanbe), not far from the prison.  (That is not a wonderful geographic marker, but it is effective and we use it all the time — it does, after all, loom somewhat large.)

The bozorcha is really just about 6 or 7 sellers who seem already long ago to have decided that this particular wide spot on the sidewalk, outside a spare little food store, was a good place to sell their produce.  For me it was the closest I could come to convenience shopping, since it was directly on my way home from work as I drove (or took marshrutkas, although that got less frequent in those final weeks) up Tursunzoda toward home.

I’ve shopped there on and off for a while (Anya’s sadik used to be located just steps from there), when I just needed one or two things, and there is one woman who sells there, alternating with her daughter, who kind of knew me by sight but not particularly well before.  But in the last month or 6 weeks before we left, I was going to her almost every day for a kilo of sweet cherries and a kilo of apricots or one of the small, especially fragrant, sweet, early ripening melons called “handalyak” in Tajik.

This woman and her daughter both have the darkest complexion I think I have ever seen among Tajiks — they look to me like they could be from southern India.  I think Tajiks would call their coloring “sip-siah” — darkest of dark.  The woman herself has very dainty features and the warmest, brightest smile that she flashes when I approach her corner of the bozorcha.

They both are friendly and humor me with my Tajik, but the daughter is less genuine and seems to view me, not unjustifiably, with dollar signs in her eyes.  I do, after all, pull up to the curb (with some attempt at not being completely flashy) in a large SUV with diplomatic plates and hop out to do my quick-stop shopping.  (This does, however, have to be put into context with the rest of the fancy cars and SUVs in Dushanbe, with their own version of sip-siah tinted windows, special privileged license plates, and extremely obnoxious, sometimes lethal, driving habits.)  I usually need to talk the daughter down from a price that seems slightly higher than it should be, and she just seems to be a little fake in her friendliness.

But the mother is more genuine, engaging me more in short snippets of conversation, flashing her smile, quoting me a better price from the start, and giving me advice on what to buy that has borne itself out on more than one occasion.

Usually you need to go to the city’s central “Green Bazaar” to get the best selection of fruits and the best prices, but the best cherries I have ever had I bought from the Bozorcha lady about a week before we left: they were at the perfect point of ripeness, with a depth of sweetness and flavor that I’ve never experienced before.  We devoured nearly all of them the night I brought them home, in much the same way I’d been doing in all that time before we left, but with this batch savoring just how wonderful they tasted and remarking on it to one another between intervals of red-stained chewing.

Now that we’re in DC, it’s easy to go and pick out fruit in the beautiful, cavernous produce hall of Whole Foods, but as expected cherries are some of the most expensive fruit, so we haven’t had any yet.  And there are no encounters here like the ones with the Auntie from the Bozorcha, or Bozorcha Apa.

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A Break in the Season

Now that’s more like May…

Even if it is the first one I’ve seen this year, falling in final hours of the month of May, this afternoon’s hailstorm is closer to the kind of late spring weather that we’ve gotten used to in the previous years we’ve spent here in Dushanbe.  Seems like we’ll be back to pool weather for our penultimate weekend in Tajikistan, though, so that is good news.

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More Dispatches From a Tangem

I’m surprised to see that it’s been well over a year since I resorted to this old saw.

Yes, the tangems are still on the road, although they are now rivaled by a much more uncomfortable form of minibus fixed-route taxi, the Hyundai Starex.  (There is a picture below, but I have never really seen any Starex on the streets of Dushanbe that looked that pretty.)

The Starex is just enough bigger than a tangem to seat 3 comfortably on the bench seats in the back, and therefore big enough for drivers to require you to sit 4 per bench seat, most often requiring 1 person to sit on a single haunch and scrunch up his (or more often her) legs and hold on even more firmly for dear life over the course of the ride.

Although they are smaller and more rattletrap, for this reason I tend to prefer the old tangems.

But I digress.

Here, again: Real messages received on my cellphone from the workaday commute on board a variety of Dushanbe vehicles…

Sitting next to extremely stinky old lady. About to mook up my cheerios.
18-Feb-2010, 08:32:02

Reckless marshrutka driver.  Great.
15-Mar-2010, 07:43:53

Just got pulled over.  This city sucks.
19-Feb-2010, 08:14:30

I’m in the packtest hyundai i’ve ever been in
28-Apr-2010, 08:30:53

Child barfing in tangem. Great.
29-Apr-2010, 08:51:14

Now she just got out. Now consumptive driver is spitting inside car.  This &%$*! vehicle is a vector.
29-Apr-2010, 08:55:16

Tajik quadirfecta. Tangem driver talking on phone, counting money, smoking cigarette, and driving.  The latter not very well.
27-May-2010, 13:24:56

Sitting next to annoying novaya tadzhichka.
2-June-2010, 17:49:14

T-shirt on guy in marshrutka: “cheise all your life and everything.”
29-June-2010, 08:10:59

Just passed 10 guys pushing bus down somoni. Huge  Tajik bobsled.
16-July-2010, 10:55:11

Marshrutka driver on drugs
3-Sept-2010, 08:27:15

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